My ex husband throughout our seperation continued to always say thingss that left hope for a reconciliation.?

first he tried to get his ex wife back which was one of the reasons he wanted a divorce but he did not tell me that I had to find out on my own. She then said she wouldnt come back and for about a wee it was lets get kids together he would call me everyday then it stopped and I found out on my own it was because he met someone else as He would not tell me the truth and wanted and pics misc. I emailed her telling her this and she said I was stalking her and him. Alls I wanted was the truth but she lied about it as well until the day after our divorce was final. They just got married a week ago but the day before he sent me a song that he said was very endearing then the next day I decided to go out of town with someone I had met. At that time I had still no idea he was getting married he text me who why where when are you going to sleep with him and said please dont do that. This was the day and evening they got married. Then the next morning he started asking the same things he wanted proof I was out of town and who I was with. Sunday he would not return any of my messages and I found out on face book they had gotten married that Friday what really got me and I need some help advice or something when we had gotten married his family paid for a homeymoon for us which he would never take me on but he used our honeymoon as the honeymoom for them.. He also told me monday he wanted to meet tuesday to tell me something he considered a gift and said what are the greatest words that you would love to hear out of my mouth I said you coming back he said no then I said that you wish you would have stayed and worked on our marriage and he said there you go but if you tell anyone I will deny it. I am in complete shock and wonder is this normal?